Miyerkules, Disyembre 30, 2009

I’m welcoming my new year with a ‘goodbye’!

“The only true painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained… It’s better to let go without knowing their real reason, because it will surely hurt more if you find it unreasonable.”

 It’s the first day of TwentyTen and everyone wants a grab of positive vibes.  Round fruits overcrowd the fruit baskets in most of the dining tables… polka dots, an eyesore, seem to be common… merrymaking is ceaseless – beers and foodstuff are plenty here and there… coins are fling to draw good fortune as the new year comes in. It’s a perfect time to celebrate!

 Welcoming sad thoughts in new year is definitely downbeat and off the wall.

 Whew, I’m down – emotionally speaking. I am letting in all the positive feelings, but I can’t help myself to brood over an up-and-coming ‘loveless’ TwentyTen.

 Basking into gay emotional relationship is atypical even until these modern times. 99% of people find it debauched – they belong to the conservative moralists and/or devout spinsters. While a remaining 1% okays itthey are mostly the hopeless sycophants and self-absorbed ‘lovers’. I just don’t know where I am categorically including myself.

 It’s not fine to be gay and gloomy. These are not synonymous adjectives. Alas, I am…

 But if being gloomy would make me realize the gist of being gay, I’ll try to be up and unflinchingly take the risks head on!

 Nothing remains constant. All things change. Everyone does! Perhaps I just have to accept whatever fate offers me to embrace.

 I’m living, loving and definitely not giving in.

 [I love you Goodbye, showing na po sa mga cinema houses!]

 ∞∞∞∞∞∞∞∞∞∞∞∞∞

 Hereunder are a few quotes sent it by my favorite friends. I’m trying to grasp the gist of letting go amidst pain from these.

 “It’s hard to let go of the memories you’ve shared with someone… when you remember the tears, you’ll laugh but when you remember the laughs, you’ll cry…”

John Ireed [December 9, 2009; 14:19]

“I hate the feeling of missing people I’ve lost along the way. But yet I’m not hoping they’ll return again… because I know one day I’ll accept the fact that not all things are meant to stay with you.” 

Mam Julie [November 28, 2009; 19:45]

“Maybe the reason why you have to stop loving a person is because God chose both of you to be friends, where forever is a lot more possible.”

Tope [October 31, 2009;18:24]

“If it takes great courage to stand and fight for something, sometimes it takes even greater courage to just walk way and leave things behind.”

Sheena [September 15, 2009; 22:54]

“If people can’t let go of you, it doesn’t mean they love you… Sometimes they can’t let you go because they know you’re always there when they want you…”

John Ireed [July 16, 2009; 20:03]

“The only true painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained… It’s better to let go without knowing their real reason, because it will surely hurt more if you find it unreasonable.”

Mam Julie [July 10, 2009; 21:42]

“Don’t attach yourself to anything that needs to go. Everything in this world is not permanent. You just have to love it while you have it.”

Mam Julie [May 7, 2009; 17:48]

“When God gives you one important thing in life never hold it too tight… so when He asks you to give it back, it’s easy to let go without hurting so bad…”

Tita Jonalyn [March 17, 2009; 06:34]

“Letting other things happen doesn’t mean you give up… it’s simply knowing that beyond risking, sometimes it falls perfectly after waiting…”

Michael [March 10, 2009;11:31]

“If ever you feel God is taking away something from your hand… don’t get sad. He is only emptying your hand so you can receive something better…”

Michael [March 04, 2009;10:12]

“It’s never nice when you forget things you’re supposed to remember… But it feels worse when you remember things you’re suppose to forget…”

Nini [February 18, 2009; 23:10]

“The sand thought me one thing:

You can’t hold too many things, no matter what you do to make them stay, and no matter how much they want to stay, the wind will always blow them away. So learn to let go and choose carefully which you want to stay, because like the sand, only those which are in the center of our palm will last!”

Sir Ben [December 28, 2008; 14:33]

“When God takes something away from your grasp, He’s not punishing you but merely emptying your hands for you to receive something better.”

Mam Hilda [November 07, 2008; 20:13]

“Pretending not to be hurt is a brave thing to do… But you know what? Crying is braver. Why? Coz not everyone can accept the fact that… Not all things are meant for you.”

Lany [September 13, 2008; 14:33]

 Please feel free to post more meaningful quotes on the art of letting go. It would be encouraging.

 

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